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Don’t become so obsessed with something that you lose your sense of reason or it costs you, your friends, don’t be so obsessed with something that you compromise your virtues and value. So beware of what you become pursuing what you want some things I went for in the very beginning, cost me too much. I got so obsessed with somethings that I found out later.
The price was too big to pay. If I would’ve known better, I never would’ve paid, but sometimes we learn when, after these are two things right now in the world, which is taking almost 95 % of human energy money and sex, these two things are right now consuming almost 95 % of human potential Is it so even 95 is a conservative estimate? Yes, almost hundred percent as money is in your pocket is good than nice. Similarly, if sex is in your body, it is nice, but if it enters your head, it becomes a perversion. It’s gotten into people’s heads.
It’s not in their body, it’s gotten into their heads. If it was in their body, it wouldn’t be all the time it would be only sometime, it’s gotten into their heads and it’s all the time. This is a disease.
There is a way of being so anxious about physical pleasure so afraid that you won’t make it that you grab it too hard that you just have to have that thing and if you do that, you destroy it completely and therefore, after every attempt to get it, You feel dissapointed, you feel empty, you feel something was lost and therefore you want it again. You have to keep repeating repeating repeating repeating, because you never really got there. You’ve got to have a better plan for your life. It’s not from outside the things that make us unhappy.
The greatest devastating unhappiness is to be unhappy with yourself. There’s an ancient phrase: here’s what it says’if! You try to save your life. You will lose it’, but if you will lose your life, meaning if you will invest your life, that’s the best way to save it and to multiply it many times over.
So here’s the phrase investing life into life has the potential of creating miracles. Investing life into life pleasure in its fullness cannot be experienced when one is grasping it to have life and to have its pleasure, you must at the same time let go of it. Every experience is a success.
What does failure mean anyway? Does it mean that something did not turn out the way you wanted it to or the way you were hoping? The law of experience is always perfect. We out picture our inner thoughts and beliefs perfectly. You must have left out a step or had an inner belief that told you you did not deserve or that you felt unworthy. It’s the same way as when I work with my computer.
If there’s a mistake, it’s always me, it is something I have not done to comply with the laws of the computer. It only means that there is something else for me to learn the old saying. If at first you don’t succeed, try try again is so true. It doesn’t mean, beat yourself up and try the same old way again.
It means recognize your error and try another way until you learn to do it correctly. I think it’s our natural birthright to go from success to success all our life. If we are not doing that either we are not in tune with our innate capabilities or we do not believe it can be true for us, or we do not recognize our successes when we set standards that are much too high for where we are at this Moment standards that we cannot possibly achieve right now, then we will always fail when a little child is learning to walk or talk. We encourage it and praise it for every tiny improvement.
The child makes the child beams and eagerly tries to do better. Is this the way you encourage yourself when you’re learning something new or do you make it harder to learn, because you tell yourself that you’re, stupid or clumsy or a failure only by practicing over and over, do we learn the new and make it a natural part Of us, when you watch an accomplished professional in any field, you are looking at innumerable hours of practice. Don’t do what I used to do. I would refuse to try anything new because I didn’t know how to do it and I didn’t want to appear.
Foolish learning is making mistakes until our subconscious mind can put together the right pictures. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been thinking of yourself as a failure. You can begin to create a success pattern.
Now we need to plant the seeds of success. These seeds will grow into an abundant harvest. Each human being on our planet must take total responsibility for his own inner development for his own inner development, and our inner development is something that we ignore a lot as we progress through this whole ladder of life, and, I think of a metaphor.
The metaphor is like a candle and the candle flame that is burning inside of you all right now, this candle flame, if you take a candle and walk out of here this evening, and you see uh raindrops falling it’ll blow out your candle and the wind will Blow out your candle there’s all kinds of things that are going to happen outside of you that you have absolutely no control over to blow out your candles. Your candles are getting blown out all the time we have an inner candle flame that must never flicker, though the worst goes before us, and that’s, perhaps the highest place we can get to in our lives is to understand that what our own inner development symbolized by That candle flame must never change, must never even flicker. It is our responsibility not only for ourselves but for our children as well to raise them to believe that whatever is going on inside of you is entirely up to you, you own it. It is yours, I’m going to give you another everything that is happening to you, whoever you are listening right at this moment.
Everything that’s happening to you in your life. You have a voice in you are creating if you’re not getting along with somebody on the job. If you’re having difficulty in your relationships and feeling victimized, if your children don’t respect, you look at yourself first and say what is it about and what can I change in order to help myself not feel victimized? Not how can I get them to change? How can I make the world different? It’s one of the fundamental problems is that people want the world to be different than it is the world is perfect, there’s no anxiety in it. There’s no depression in it.
There’s no stress in it. Contrary to anything. You’ve heard the world is not a stressful place, it’s a perfect place.
You are a part of that world. You are a part of the universe. Your perfection is also in your own creation.
You’re, not a mistake. None of it is there’s only anxious thinking, there’s only stressful thinking, there’s only angry thoughts, there’s no anger in the world when you stop having that and replace that with this serenity. I’m talking about with this piece inside of yourself, you don’t even know how to be victimized anymore.
It’s not like you learn all these strategy. You become healing instead of becoming poisoned, you are effective rather than trying to get there. You live it.
You see when you get enough inner grace or inner peace or serenity. Whatever you want to call it, you feel really positive about yourself. It’s almost impossible for you to be controlled and manipulated by anybody else.
